Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behaviour among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behaviour is constantly repeated. Both kids who are bullied and who bully others may have serious lasting problems.

Bullying can be devastating for children’s confidence and self-esteem, especially in their early years.

It is important to talk with and listen to the child. Try to find out more about the situation before talking to teacher. Furthermore, it is important that as a parent you remain calm as it is a chance to help the child solve the problem. If you get angry, the child might think it is their fault and in reality, it is not.

Praise the child for telling you about their problem and let them know you are going to help them. It is also important to avoid negative comments as they will not help anyone.

Finally, talk to the school and the child’s teacher. Be calm and discuss it together, as a team. Do not contact the bully’s parents yourself as it might make it worse.